Keep developing your social skills as a doctor
I believe one way for you to keep improving your social skills as a doctor is to treat the doctor-patient relationship and work ethics as areas of knowledge. Just like you do with the (let’s call it) technical subjects.
In medical school, we hear and learn about the humanistic aspects of medicine. And for many of us, that’s pretty much the end of the matter.
Over some time, we shape our professional persona, giving it its final look too soon. And then, when facing others’ notable reflections on these issues or witnessing others having this perfect I-would-never-have-done-that behaviour towards a patient or another person, we feel…small. And embarrassed. I have certainly felt.
The other way around also happens, and you will feel embarrassed because of some unfortunate behaviours by others.
The point is, you can do more. Don’t rely entirely on your life experience to point you to better decisions.
As with our technical competence, our emotional competence can also improve with study, reflection and application.
This can include a spiritual approach, if you like.
Tip for the “I don’t have time for that”: in your country, there is probably a code of deontology for doctors; if it is a well-put document, read it from time to time.
Infekta